ZK and I Consultants' TitBits on Life
Mental Health, Mentoring, Coaching, Marriage Counselling, Faith, Culture and Spirituality.
Friday, 10 August 2012
Watch your reaction
"It's not what happens to you that matters but how you react to what happens to you" - Author not known.
Wednesday, 8 August 2012
The Irony
By working faithfully 8 hours a day, you may become a boss and work 12 hours a day! - Robert Frost
Sunday, 29 July 2012
Develop excellence
We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, therefore is not an act but a habit - Aristotle
Thursday, 12 July 2012
Tuesday, 3 July 2012
Monday, 2 July 2012
Sunday, 24 June 2012
Saturday, 23 June 2012
Friday, 22 June 2012
Thursday, 21 June 2012
Saturday, 17 March 2012
Monday, 12 December 2011
Monday, 7 November 2011
Thursday, 3 November 2011
Tuesday, 1 November 2011
Daily Quotes: Little drops of........
"Baby steps count, as long as you are going forward. You add them all up and one day, you look back and you'll be surprised at where you might get to."____________Chris Gardner
Monday, 31 October 2011
Sunday, 30 October 2011
To my husband; who never ceases to surprise me
Close to a week ago, I started the journey to the 20th year since I tied the knot with a very dear friend.
I promised to stay by my best friend's side till the end of times. It was a huge undertaking and I panicked. "I don't know him, but I know it's him. I have only seen him about half a dozen times in the past 3 years, always with others and never alone, what I know of him is as a member of a group", "well it's too late now, you can't possibly abandon him at this time; don't worry, it happens to everyone, it will be just fine, you do not need to "know" him, every day will be a journey of discovery and surprises".
I promised to stay by my best friend's side till the end of times. It was a huge undertaking and I panicked. "I don't know him, but I know it's him. I have only seen him about half a dozen times in the past 3 years, always with others and never alone, what I know of him is as a member of a group", "well it's too late now, you can't possibly abandon him at this time; don't worry, it happens to everyone, it will be just fine, you do not need to "know" him, every day will be a journey of discovery and surprises".
So there I was, calming my nerves, telling me not to worry, "he is a gentleman, he'll treat you well", and he had. He had remained true and so have I. He had stayed and cared, he had loved and respected, he had teased and shared, he has never raised his his voice or his hands except in excitement or for a hug. As the days rolled by and the years came, one after the other, and the grey set in; he still loves me, he still tells me everyday; he still tells me how beautiful I have made his life by being a part of it.
I tell him the same, I love him too; I have cared and I have shared, I have hoped and I have found, the essence of life by being his wife. Each new day have been a journey of discovery, each one with its own surprises. I look forward to the next 20 years, maybe another 20 years, of days full of new discoveries and just as surprising as the very first day..
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Sunday, 23 October 2011
Thursday, 20 October 2011
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